Sometimes you just have to admit when something isn't working, and Miss Lola and I were not working. She hated being kennelled all day and expressed her frustrations all evening. So both of us were unhappy and that's not good for me or fair for a high energy puppy.
So after some hard thinking and a few tears I found a wonderful new home for Lola with one of my oldest friends. She works from home, her husband is retired and they have 2 children and a 4 year old yorkie.
Lola will have all the attention she deserves and a sibling to play with. I noticed a significant difference in Lola on the weekends when I was home most of the time. Much less bad behavior problems. But through the weekdays, the evenings were so unpleasant (for both of us)
So I am confident the right decision was made and her new family is thrilled to have her and the update I got this morning sounds like Lola is adjusting well too.
I guess living alone and working full time is not the environment for a puppy. At least for this puppy. So I'm going to take a step back and put puppy motherhood on the back burner for now.
I hate those hard choices but you really do know when it's the right thing and this sounds like one of those times. We had to do something like that with a dog many years ago. My kids were little and this dog was about 4yrs old and we were told he was great with kids. No way was he good with kids. He bit the neighbor boy, my youngest boy , and just wasn't happy with us. We found him a great home with a retired lady and he was much happier. We found a puppy at the pound a few years later and had him for 15yrs. Take care Kim....you'll find that perfect fit one day when it's the right time.
ReplyDeleteRon was reading over my shoulder and he said, "That is very wise." Sometimes dogs are like people, they just don't fit. I am glad you found a nice home for her. Now I bet you are looking forward to some peace and quiet.
ReplyDeletePerhaps not the right fit for a puppy, but a more mature dog that doesn't need to be kenneled could work - keep looking for the right one to share your home!
ReplyDeleteSorry it didn't work out, but glad you did what was best for you and Lola even though I'm sure it was difficult.
ReplyDeleteKim,
ReplyDeleteYou are very smart, brave and caring! It sounds like Lola will be well cared for and happy. I hope in time you find a little companion that works out well for both of you!
Hugs!!
Cathy G
I know it was a very difficult decision, but your are right, both of you will be much happier. True love is knowing when to let go....
ReplyDeletePuppies are like humans. They want more attention from us. Nice to hear about your decision...
ReplyDeleteI think you have made a good decision for both you and Lola. It sounds like a good fit for her with new playmates. My son had to rehome his dog when he could not take him on his move. The dog had been tearing the apartment down when he was at work and totally out of control. His friend who has a farm adopted the dog and now he is free to play outside and loves it. Sometimes hard decisions turn out for the best and it will be for Lola too.
ReplyDeleteYorkies are small but full of spirit and energy. Sometimes it just doesn't work out. Better for both that you move on. Someday when the time and puppy are right, it will happen again.
ReplyDeleteI also think that you made the right decision. Puppies are so needy and a lot of work. Lola will be much happier and so will you.
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JB
I hope the third home is a charm for Lola. Sometimes, it doesn't work out, but you are a responsible person and Lola's welfare important. We have decided against anymore furbabies. Hard on the heart, and getting very expensive for vet care on a fixed income. But of course, never say never!
ReplyDeleteYou did all you could possibly do to make it work by seeking out personal training. Lola now has another pup to play with and help spend all that energy. The pup I rescued just before Ben ended up biting me after I'd had her 3 weeks and it was not a play bite, she meant it and broke skin. Back to the rescue she went because that dog couldn't be around my grandson.
ReplyDeleteBen fell in my lap by accident as I was called by a local vet who knew I was looking for another Rottie. Wanting to be sure he was going to fit okay I visited him at his home 3 different times to be sure. Ben is a great affectionate dog and I got lucky. When you least expect it you will have another fur friend to share life with.
It must have been a hard decision to make but in the long run I think you will both be happier. I think getting an older dog is a good idea. One of my best friends did that and it has worked out perfectly for her. Have patience and find the right one.
ReplyDeleteThis had to be a hard decision, but probably the best one for both you and Miss Lola. Sending hugs! xo
ReplyDeleteKim,
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry it didn't work out but you did what was best for you and Lola. When the time is right, perhaps you can think about adopting an older girl as others have suggested. There are so many furbabies looking for furever homes.
Hugs!!!
Lauren
I know how hard this decision must have been. After 2 years of pulling my hair out having both Fozzie and his brother (from the same litter) living here, we found him a new wonderful home. I kind of regret not doing it sooner because it really was the right decision and would've saved me an ounce of sanity.
ReplyDeleteAs a long time dog owner, I applaud you making the decision to re-home Lola although you loved her. Your decision reflects that love. As a senior stay-at-home, even I am not considering a puppy, but a more mature dog. A puppy is too needy at that stage and I realize my health won't let me keep up with a baby. Luckily, there are no shortages of rescues and shelters filled with older dogs who would love a forever home. Just need to find the right dog. Don't give up on finding a companion, but steer clear of babies.
ReplyDeleteTake care,
trisha
Oh Kim, so sorry to hear about giving Lola up, hard decision to be had. Blessings Francine.
ReplyDeleteI know that was a hard decision for you but I think you did the right thing. It's hard when you work all day. There may be an older fur baby in your future who needs a loving home.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry it didn't work:( but for sure you did the right thing if it just wasn't working. Maybe right now is not the right time. that is how we are feeling about getting a dog.
ReplyDeleteCathy
I hope the third family is the charm for the little girl. Sorry it didn't work out.
ReplyDeleteAwww... you certainly put your all (and more) into trying to make it work... sounds to me like you'll get updates and perhaps visit Lola every once in awhile too! Hugs!
ReplyDeleteI'm sure it was a hard decision to make, sorry it didn't work out.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry about your dog but you did an unselfish act. Your always reminding me what a terrific person you are. I am sure it was heartbreaking. Boy I get busy and then all heck breaks loose in my blogger friends lives. Hugs cheri
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