Thursday, July 19, 2012

The simplest of things

Some days just the simplest things can give you a boost, even when you least expect it.

Daily responsibilities can sometimes take their toll without you even realizing.  It seems like there is always some kind of demand on my time or attention.  And the workload associated with Mom's care has increased significantly in the past year.

Today I found myself with a free lunch hour - a truly free hour.  Mom was at her Adult Day Care and Auntie had plans with a friend. 

I called Bella's Bistro and ordered my lunch for take-out.  I came home and ate my lunch out on the back deck with my faithful buddy Millie by my side.  The sun was shining, the food was great, and the company was cute and quiet.  I didn't have to talk or think about anything.  Everything and everyone was taken care of was someone else's responsibility for awhile. 

Just the simple joy of spending a little quiet time with myself, sitting in the sun and eating out of styrofoam dishes.  Honestly, I felt like a million bucks.  I sat there thinking about how relaxed and peaceful I felt.

I'm trying to stop and appreciate the little things.  I'm trying to surround myself with positive energies and distance myself from those who  thrive on the negative.  I'm trying to do more things with friends.  I'm trying to say yes I can, more than no I can't.      

Let the big stuff roll off your back and stop each day to cherish the simple moments. 
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17 comments:

  1. Farm GirlJuly 19, 2012 at 9:09 PM

    I love your photo, it speaks volumes of peace and of quiet. What a nice little way to have your lunch today. I am so glad that Millie was your companion. I have found that sometimes it is that tiny moment that I can just take that will give me the most rest for my mind. I hope you have a very slow and peaceful day tomorrow.

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  2. JuliaJuly 19, 2012 at 9:24 PM

    I agree with you 100% that sometimes the simplest things can give you a boost and renew your spirit. There is abundant graces in recharging your batteries in this quiet time by yourself and Millie and good food that you didn't had to prepare yourself helps too.

    I hope that tomorrow is pleasant and peaceful for you.

    Hugs, JB

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  3. KeltieJuly 19, 2012 at 9:28 PM

    I had a similar experience about 20 years ago. My daughter was one when I started law school, and ever since her birth I had rarely had a true moment alone. One day I decided that, instead of studying in the law school while I ate, I would go home for lunch. I remember feeling so amazed at how nice it was to be at home, all by myself (with the dog and cat). Enjoy those moments - they recharge us and help us handle all the other moments when we have to focus on the others around us.

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  4. Dog Trot FarmJuly 19, 2012 at 9:41 PM

    It's those little moments that mean the most. Lunch with your best gal Millie sounds devine! Greetings from Maine, Julie.

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  5. AndreaJuly 19, 2012 at 10:14 PM

    Will you please take another picture when that beautiful bud opens. #1 So I can see it and #2 So you can have another quiet peaceful moment!

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  6. Primitive StarsJuly 19, 2012 at 10:28 PM

    Hi Kim, Amen to that, simple is best. Lunch with your best bud on the deck, what could be better. Blessings Francine.

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  7. acorn hollowJuly 19, 2012 at 10:33 PM

    So glad you got to have a quiet lunch with Millie.
    It truly is the little things in life that count the most.
    Cathy

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  8. karenJuly 19, 2012 at 11:05 PM

    Quiet times are so nice. How great that you were able to grab the time!

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  9. yayaJuly 19, 2012 at 11:30 PM

    I'm thinking that little Millie enjoyed having you for some alone time too! It's nice to be able to sit and smell the roses or a delish lunch once in a while. It's very hard to be the care taker all the time. Sometimes we just need to be the care taker of ourselves. I hope you have more peaceful moments to cherish.

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  10. DonnaJuly 19, 2012 at 11:54 PM

    Take time to stop and smell the roses. You need it and deserve it. I enjoy reading your blog....it's heartwarming. The best to you.

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  11. moosecraftJuly 20, 2012 at 7:13 AM

    A little bit of peaceful quiet every day can heal the soul! Even the most "people-person" people need a break from people at times... ;-) I wish you many more happy peaceful moments!

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  12. Chicken WranglerJuly 20, 2012 at 9:40 AM

    Wonderful post and a great reminder to those of us who rush through our days, doing the same old things the same way just because we've always done it that way! Making just a little change can make such a HUGE difference in our outlook. Refreshing! Thanks for sharing.

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  13. Larkrise garden girlJuly 20, 2012 at 11:16 AM

    Oh Kim,If you were to have to pick Peace or Happiness Peace would be what I would pick. There is nothing better then the worries of our lives being put aside for a sit with a pet.Petting Maulie when I am alone helps me feel sense of peace and calm when Lifes constant storms are at my feet(and also a little prayer)HUgs Cheri

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  14. Taos SunflowerJuly 20, 2012 at 1:23 PM

    Boy, Kim, you're so right. Glad you had that time, the thought, and shared it with us as a reminder.

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  15. Cherry's Prairie PrimitivesJuly 20, 2012 at 6:23 PM

    Those are the best moments!!

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  16. TheCrankyCrowJuly 21, 2012 at 5:39 PM

    Great post Girlfriend - and incredible photo....(Bachelor Button???) I have been feeling pulled in a zillion directions lately too - caring for everyone else's needs and it truly is draining. I need to find some simple quiet somewhere....Smiles & Hugs ~ Robin

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  17. jodyJuly 23, 2012 at 6:32 PM

    i love quiet time! so glad you got a bit of it! enjoy your day!

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